Bi-monthly emails about sex, bodies, and what's really going on in relationships after 40. Plus links to podcast episodes, essays, and cool relationship-ing tools.
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Close your eyes for a moment. I want you to listen, not to the obvious things, but to the often overlooked language of aliveness. The breath of the room. The sigh that escapes your chest when you finally sit down to rest. The quiet rustle of fabric against your skin. Over the years, I have grown hypersensitive to sound, so much so that I donāt always appreciate it. But lately, I have amplified my attention to the symphony of noises around me. The low, velvety rasp of my partnerās voice. Everything has a rhythm, and when I tune in, I can feel that pulse in me too. Sometimes itās the scoot of blinds being pulled backālike light making an entrance. Or the scratch of a lead against paper as I spill my heart between the lines. The holy hush of breath coursing in and out of lungs in muzzled silence. I yearn for those sounds. Sensuality is more than what we see, touch, and feel. Itās also what we tune into. What we allow to move us from the inside out. Right now, under the cloak of night. I am listening. Are you? xo, |
Bi-monthly emails about sex, bodies, and what's really going on in relationships after 40. Plus links to podcast episodes, essays, and cool relationship-ing tools.