Bi-monthly emails about sex, bodies, and what's really going on in relationships after 40. Plus links to podcast episodes, essays, and cool relationship-ing tools.
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This morning, I made tea without doing anything else at the same time. No checking emails. I listened to the kettle's slow build āthe quiet that settles before the boil. Watched the steam rise and curl. Noticed how the water darkened as it met the leaves. Felt the warmth of the cup seep into my palms. It was maybe six minutes total. But in those six minutes, I felt more present, more sensual, more alive than I had all week. We often think pleasure requires special circumstancesāthe perfect date, expensive sheets, or a rare free afternoon. What if the most profound pleasure hides in plain sight, tucked into the corners of monotony? What if living a sensual life is simply bringing more presence to whatās already there? This week, let yourself delight in small moments, treat the ordinary as sacred, and make art out of the mundane. An invitation: Choose one activity today - making your bed, washing dishes, taking a shower - and approach it with complete presence. Slow down. Notice the sensations, the textures, the subtle pleasures. How does it feel to bring your full attention to something so simple? Savoring simplicity, |
Bi-monthly emails about sex, bodies, and what's really going on in relationships after 40. Plus links to podcast episodes, essays, and cool relationship-ing tools.