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This week on Love Is…, we’re easing into one of my favorite seasons, Sexual Autumn. Autumn is all about intentionality. Slow arousal. Deliberate touch. And centering sensation and pleasure. You might feel averse to the hype of hot and bothered right now. And that’s okay, this is the perfect time to dawdle (Love that word!).
In this episode, we explore:
Let’s get into it. xo, P.S. Next week we wrap the Sexual Winter. ☃️ |
Welcome to the no-BS corner of the internet for women over 40. Where marriage gets real, divorce gets honest, and dating makes sense. Pull up a chair.