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I Used to Flinch When Someone Offered to Help 😮‍💨


In this week's episode of Love Is..., I’m unpacking something tender and true: the resistance we feel when someone offers us care, love, or support—and how it messes with our nervous systems.

We’re exploring:

  • Why “I’ll do it myself” can feel safer than softness.
  • The hidden cost of always being the strong one.
  • And why learning to receive is actually the most radical relationship shift you can make.

I also share a story about a client who couldn’t orgasm with her partner because she couldn’t let go long enough to be fully present.

This episode is a loving nudge to invite more ease, more surrender, and more pleasure.

xo,

life. love. and the sexy bits.

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